New Photos of My Cichlids in Gallery

[sherchoo]

Hi,

This is a simple case of misunderstanding.

Dovii, yes you were only kidding but to others, they may not see it that way. Jokes may be funny but sometimes it does sting. So let's be a little more careful with our choice of words so that we can continue to share and enjoy our hobby in this forum..... let's drop this at this point ok......

[huaikong]

listen up pple....no jokes on them anymore ok....giv these back stage guys ample support if we want this forum running.....

rgds

[benetay]

thats very good[] []

[Dovii]

my my... no jokes at all? What a sombre and stern forum this is! (See... I can read out of context too ! ) By the way, Simon, like you, I too can be a bit touchy... and I can get especially touchy when someone rap my knuckles unnecessarily like an errant school kid over a supposedly open forum for a comment that I had made which they decide to take a special offence to. I'm sure everybody here would like to be treated like an adult, and ... adults do joke once in a while too, you know. I really can't help it if people choose to read more than what is there in the first place.[]

Oh yes, another thing... for people like me who do not have the pleasure of knowing the actual owners of AquaticQuotient.com personally, the Moderators are the 'management'. So, I must really apologise if the owners think that I am referring to them in my post.

[DEA]

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On 6/13/2002 12:30:46 PM

Gee... and you are a Moderator too !
Don't think the management is really too serious about beefing up their Gallery then.
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moderators or not
we don't give any one member more rights than another simply "because"
if the pics didn't reach simon, a simple reminder either thru icq or the proper channels would suffice
no need to make a fuss out of it
no such thing as some people are more equal than others here

and if we're not serious about adding your pics
........
why on earth did simon ask you? right?
peace

[Dovii]

Who's making a fuss now, I wonder ! I was just remarking on a comment that Isz made by the way, or have you just chose to conveniently ignore that.

Gee... another one who either:
(a) Don't read earlier posts in thread;
(b) Chooses to read more than what is actually there;
(c) Likes to act all 'high and mighty', 'holier than thou';
(d) Have no sense of humor and expect other not to have one too;
Or (e) All of the above !

[DEA]

dovii
my post wasn't meant for you
try rereading it again
before you start up

[lsz]

Simon, Jason, cool it !

Personally i do not read anything in that particular post. I think it is a natural reaction to my remark. Not just Jason will put that reply there really. Many ppl will.

Put the blame on me, perhaps i brought this up in the wrong place.

The management and the forum member stands on different ground. To intepret any particular post is up to the individual eventually.

I think Simon had apologised, and Jason had made it clear that he is kidding. Both had gave reasons.

Just stop at that.

or both of you can meet me and punch me.

[DEA]

you're reading too much into it again
you seem to think i'm agitated, no?

btw when're you gonna be free, i need to pass u the t-shirt, confirm you'll like

[Simon]

errr.. guys, lets move on.... forget the whole thing.. trying to explain makes matter worse, its clearly a misunderstanding and I oredi apologize for my impulsive replies

[sherchoo]

Ok... this would go on forever. Can we stop here by saying we should be:

1. more careful with our choice of words
2. be more flexible and don't be so sensitive

So please no more arguments on who is wrong and who is right, agreed?

[akoh]

cool it guys ! lets move on ! we've things to do - -like planting tomolo huh !

Safe Diving !
akoh

[jade]

yes cool it guys!!!!!let the two team Brazil and England fight,shall we move on........."Make Love&Peace" not War.[] []

[lsz]

Yimin dammit you always sound pissed even when in person so i will not argue abt that!

Look at the "significant other" rather than center all arguements around yourself man. There is always a reason for how other ppl other than yourself feel. Take a step back and reflect upon yourself instead sometimes[]

And Simon yeah i will compile whatever pics i sent before to you again. I can offer to do some avators too to add to the choices here. I send everything one shot to you again.